Nerd Alert

In case you haven’t caught on just yet, I’ll let you in on a not so secret secret: I’m kind of obsessed with Jane Austen.

This love goes back to sometime in high school when I picked up a copy of Emma and never truly ever put it back down. The characters nestled deep into my heart and to this day I find myself going back to read those books again and again.

Jane Austen Night

So when I saw that the 200th anniversary of the publication of Pride and Prejudice (told you, nerd alert) was coming up I just knew we had to celebrate.  I don’t know about you, but I don’t agree with the idea that books are sacred and need to be handled delicately and only with clean hands. Books are friendship and romance and adventure, just waiting to burst out of the seams. You don’t sit primly holding a book! You curl up on the sofa, you leave it sprawled open, you drop your tomato soup on the corner, you smudge chocolate chip cookies on it’s cover, and YES you take it into the tub with you! And if accidents happen well you’ve got a great story to tell about that time you dropped your mom’s Pride and Prejudice book into the tub of steaming hot water.

jane austen collageNow I foresaw some grumblings from the male portion of my family if I tried to get everyone to sit down and read P&P together (can you even imagine?! I’m weak just thinking about it). Instead, I made some delicious brown sugar chicken (forever renamed as brown shug chicky chick),and some teabag shaped, Austen inspired shortbread cookies. I decorated the living room a la Austen and sat my little tushy down (having called dibs on the big TV many hours previous. This is necessary in a house with an xbox wielding brother. ) to watch the Keira Knightly version of Pride and Prejudice. My mom was all for watching the six hour long version but since we started this endeavor at about 7pm on a Monday I really didn’t think it was wise so Colin Firth was saved for another day. Did I mention my mother also loves Jane Austen? I think we both shed tears over that P&P book. (She still has it, on a shelf that hides the wrinkled up half.)

jane austen collage 2So thank you, Jane Austen, for creating your hilariously believable and beloved characters. Without you, this book worm’s multiple weeks of grounded would have been suffering indeed. Unfortunately for my mother, you existed and therefore “grounding” meant nothing to me but extra time to read.

It’s good to be back

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Hello dear ones! It feels good to be back. Thank you for being patient and letting me have some time off. It was so nice to get away, take a step back, and breath for a minute but I didn’t realize how much I would miss it!

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Writing this blog and organizing all that comes with it (emails, sponsors, social media, photography, fashion, etc.) has become a part of my everyday life.  It’s almost cathartic in its own silly, small way; a chance to break free of the everyday doldrums we can sometimes get ourselves into and to find beauty in the ordinary. Even something as inconsequential as what outfit I wore can suddenly become interesting and fun when I find that one perfect phrase to describe what I’m feeling in my head. Without this blog to transpose some of my creativity onto, I caught myself catching up a notebook and scribbling away for a good thirty minutes or so, multiple times a day.  It didn’t really matter what I wrote, or if the page made any sense as a standalone piece once I was finished. Just having the chance to let out everything I was thinking at once was pure bliss.

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This blog has always been a place that I can share how I’m feeling, whatever that may be.  When I decided to take some time off, it was mostly because I didn’t know where to go from here. I wanted to think about how much I was going to share of my life on this blog.

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But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that I’ve always shared whatever the heck I wanted here. I’m not going to allow myself to be hemmed in by others. Their thoughts and opinions don’t matter here; this is my space to share what I want. And I want people to read this blog and see a girl striving to find beauty in the every day, accepting with open arms every challenge, every moment life brings my way, because it’s the happy and the sad that makes life so wonderful.

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I’m sure at this point you guys are thinking, “What is this crazy woman rambling on about?” Hey, there’s a reason why The Rambler is such a perfect name for me. But let’s get to it: I broke off my engagement last month.  For many reasons that are a bit too painful and personal to talk about, so we’ll just keep it short and sweet and say we didn’t agree on important subjects.

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Target hat// Gap trench// Old navy tee// Forever21 scarf// Gap jeans// Guess heels

So all in all, I’m doing fine. Life is beautiful. Painful moments happen. You get up, you start over, and you move on, you keep livin’. You buy those shoes because they’re cute and your legs look great in them and dang it you just broke off your engagement, you deserve them!

*sigh* it’s good to be back!

Vintage Coats Make Me Giddy

 

Target Sunnies// Vintage coat// Charlotte Russe heels

One of my favorite aspects of Winter are all the fun accessories. Scarves, mittens, hats, socks, boots and of course: coats!

This coat is one of my all time favorite pieces I own; my aunt found it in her mother in law’s attic and asked if I would want it.  well der! It’s super heavy and quite fancy so I don’t get to wear it very often, but I had to pull it out this year and do a little shoot, it’s just too darling not to show to the world : )

This coat is a great example of why I love fashion, why I do what I do with this blog. There’s a story behind this coat, of how my aunt’s mother in law bought it and never wore it yet somehow it ended up in her attic and my aunt found it and thought of me. I love the story behind an outfit or a particular piece of clothing; what you were thinking when you bought it, what occasion did you buy it for, how you feel when you wear it, where were you when you bought it. If you take the time to invest in pieces like this coat, you have a walking memory, a great conversation starter.

I also love the transformation that happens with fashion. For me, outfits are very emotion-based. How I’m feeling that particular day or what I’m being influenced by will present itself through my clothing; whether it’s a song, a movie, a color, or an emotion. I love that I have that option, that something as simple as my clothing can become a medium for my creativity.

Does anyone else understand what I’m saying? What is fashion to you?

 

Turban Scarf Tutorial

Hi friends!

I’m sharing my turban scarf tutorial today! This has become one of my absolute favorite ways to wear my hair. It’s so simple!

If you have any questions let me know! I’d love to help! If you have any problems with the video, click here.

I’m going to be taking a break from blogging for this month. I’ve got a few random posts already scheduled that I’ll go ahead and post but for the most part I’ll be MIA for January. I’m going to be in and out of the state, I’ve got a lot going on at work, and I’ve had some personal issues come up so I believe I will take a few weeks off! Have a wonderful first of 2013 and I will see you in a few weeks!

 

Hello 2013!

scarf (old)// target sunnies, H&M top (borrowed from the seestor)// Pacsun pants// Forever 21 booties.

Well hello there 2013. Nice to see ya. ’12 was a great year, but let’s see what ’13 can do.

This year’s resolutions aren’t all that fancy or ingeniousness, They’re simply parts of my life where I feel I could improve. So here it is:

1. Health. As in overall health, mind body spirit. Take care of my body more, be more conscious of what I take in. Nurture my mind, read more. Be mindful of my spirit, that what I put out is a direct reflection of what I take in.

2. Wealth. Be a better steward of the blessings I have been given. Don’t be a mindless spending machine. Invest in items that will be long lasting.Save more money.

3. Happiness. Focus on making others happy, not just myself. Be more giving. Take time to cultivate true friendships, take care of the precious friendships I already have.

Bring it on 2013. Let’s do this.

linking up with Rolled Up Pretty and The Pleated Poppy!

PS: come back tomorrow for a vlog tutorial of my turban scarf!

 

Red.

Pacsun beanie, Old Navy jacket, Target Scarf, {old.v old.} jean jacket, Urban Outfitters merci beau coup tee, Pac Sun pants, Charlotte Russe rainboots.

These pictures were taken the day after we were supposed to get nine inches of Christmas Day snow. #weathermanfail. However it’s now snowing again as I type, so they might be able to swing this one and say they meant nine inches over a week?

I love the snow. I love the look, how everything is bright and white and clean. I love how excited everyone gets when they see snow, even adults. Snow causes everyone to pause, to look, to become a child for just a while.

2013 is almost here and I can’t help but use these last few days of ’12 to look back and reminisce. It’s been one crazy year, and 2013 will be even crazier! I’m excited to set new goals for myself, both in my personal life and here on this blog. Thank you to all of the sweet readers who keep coming back and reading this crazy little spot on the ‘net I call my own. It’s been a huge learning experience! I want to continue to learn all I can from this crazy Blogworld. I can’t wait to see what 2013 will hold!

See you guys next year!

12 Favorites from 2012

my first photo in 2012 compared to my last in 2012.
I got this idea from Shanna and I just loved it so much I thought I’d recreate it, Rambler style : ) But Shanna rocks and did 20 things and I’m not that cool so we’re just doing 12.
12 of my favorite things in 2012!
1. Shoes: this one is a toughy, but I’ll go with these heels and these boots. I wore the CRAP out of those heels and those boots are the comfiest thing EVER.
2. Jewelry: my gold watch. I wear it almost every day, and it’s in almost every picture on this here blog. Here here and here are examples.
3. Accessory: I’d have to go with Shanna and say scarves. I LOVE my fur snood! I got it for Christmas last year and oh my word look how much I’ve changed! How crazy.
4. Clothing Item: I’d have to say my coated black pants from Pacsun. They are featured on this here blog at least once a week. And I’m quit proud of the fact that I fanagled a discount out of the Pacsun guy when I bought them. Woot!
5. Fashion Trend I absolutely adore Chelsea boots! I think they’re so quirky, I just love them. Least favorite? Sheer maxi skirts with solid mini skirts underneath. Um what?
6. Home Decor Trend: Fur rugs. Ya I’m kind of obsessed with fur. Least favorite? Chevron. I’m over it.
7. Place to shop: Forever 21, ASOS and Target.
8. Album: I have to agree with Shanna again, I adore Florence and the Machine. I’m also quite partial to Taylor Swift: Red (judge me all you want)
9. Trip: OF COURSE our engagement trip to San Francisco!
10. Social Media: I’m kind of obsessed with Instagram! I’m so glad they’re NOT going to go cray cray and steal my photos for their own selfish gain.

11. Blog Outfit: This one, this one, and this one. It’s also interesting that this one has gotten the most pins on pinterest! So random!
12. Blog Post: When I decided to take this blog to the next level (still working on that one!) and when I ranted about sweatpants
You can also read my most embarrassing moments in 2012 (and a tiny bit of 2011, I was such a baby!)
YAY! if you decide to do a 12 in ’12 (or a 20 in ’12!), Shoot me an email! I’d love to see your list!

Christmas with The Rambler

This year Christmas was a little strange but still very sweet. My sister and brother in law stopped in OK on their way to Missouri for Christmas, and Mr. Darcy left right before Christmas to go to England, so we actually celebrated with a big family dinner last week. Christmas Day was spent with just my siblings and parents, watching Christmas movies, grilling steaks in the snowy backyard, and opening our stockings. A very quiet Christmas compared to the past couple of years, but sweet nonetheless. Here’s a few pictures from the past week.

Merry Christmas! xx

Hey We’re Still Alive!

Target Hat// Old Navy coat// Forever 21 Top// Pacsun pants// Forever 21 chelsea boots

Welp it’s Friday the 21st and we’re all still alive! I guess the Mayans got it wrong. Or maybe they just ran out of rock, who knows.

The point is that the world didn’t end which means I can now truly enjoy the good things in life. Like these boots. Have I told you of my deep love for Chelsea boots? I absolutely adore boots and these slightly ugly yet equally quirky Chelsea boots are just darling. ( Chelseas are tight fitting ankle boots distinguished by the elastic band on the sides rather than a zipper.  For those that are confused. Come on guys, get with the program).

These are on sale, these have a darling color block effect to them, and these are currently starring in my wildest dreams.

Are you in love now as well? Yes. I knew you would be.

Merry {early} Christmas! I won’t be back until after the Big Guy visits, so have a wonderful holiday, hug your loved ones extra tight, and remember what this season is really about.


“God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;
The wrong shall fail, the right prevail
With peace on earth, good will to men.”

- I Heard the  Bells


A Guide to a Happy Holiday via Martha May Whovier

When it comes to the holidays, there isn’t anyone I would trust more than that arbiter of fantastical fashion, that whimsical woman of wow: Martha May Whovier

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I mean LOOK at her. She practically oozes Christmas couture. So with my icon in mind, I’ve concocted a list of items needed for the perfect holiday hooplah.

1. Glitzy hair bands: You can never have too much glitter, and a hair band that doubles as a bracelet? Double score!

2. Red lips: Those grinches sure do love a crimson lip. This butter smooth wonder of a lippy will have them puckering up before you can say mistletoe

3. A great pair of falsies: Flirting is the name of the season and false lashes ramp it up a needed notch. Try out these angled lashes to create the perfect cat eye.

4. The right tunes: Sometimes you need a good tune to set the mood. My favorite cd lately is Under the Mistletoe (available at Starbucks). Featuring old classics and new twists, this compilation is perfect for a little welcome background noise.

5. A fire, merry and bright: A happy little chimney is the perfect gathering spot. Don’t have one? Use this adorable DIY to create one!

6. A fur stole: A fantastic fur is pure decadence and this BCBG one is a price any who could afford.

7. Adorable legs: show off those gams with a darling pair of bow tights.

8. Diamonds my dear: I believe Martha would agree with Marilyn on this one: diamonds truly are a girl’s best friend. You can’t ever go wrong with a festive necklace.