Why yes. Here I am. Wearing overalls. At 24 years old. And no it’s not a joke.
I am personally ECSTATIC that overalls are coming back in style. Hi hello, an outfit that is SUPER comfortable and still stylish? yes please! Also, they’re perfect “fat pants”. Having one of those weeks? Overalls. Going to eat Italian and you know you’re going to be huge when you get done? Overalls. Haven’t done laundry so the only panties you have left are slightly grandma-ish (we all own them, don’t try to tell me all you wear are thongs)? Overalls!
And if you get a resounding chorus of the Dueling Banjos every time you walk by, or you’re told that you look like Mario’s little sister, well just act like Van Gogh and say, “I can’t hear you!”
I’ve frequently been asked where and how often I shop, and I was just going to answer this questions in a FAQ post but I decided it needed it’s own post :)
So let’s break this question down:
How often do I shop? Well I’d have to say that I window shop quite a lot. Like 5 out of 7 days a week. But I don’t mean physically window shop. I mean cyber window shop. 98% of my shopping is done online. Whether I’m actually looking to purchase an item or I’m just looking for inspiration, a lot of my free time is spent window shopping. Judge all you want.
How often do I actually purchase an item? Hmmm maybe a few times a month? It really just depends. If it’s a new season than that number will be higher because I’m purchasing items to supplement any losses I have incurred. I tend to wear items until they’re falling to pieces, so a jacket that has grown too small, a pair of jeans that have lost their shape, a pair of shoes that are really scuffed. Those basic items are the things I’m looking for at the beginning of the season.
The farther we get into a season, the fewer purchases I make. I might order a new scarf, or a cute hat, or a simple tee. Items that can be easily worn with multiple outfits. Very rarely do I buy an item that can’t be worn multiple ways and even more rarely do I buy an item at full price.
And despite what people seem to think, I DO wear items more than once. I don’t know where that rumor got started, but believe me it’s not true. I have two simple rules when I go shopping:
1. Can the item be worn at least 5 different ways with items I already own?
2. Will I still like the item in a year?
If it doesn’t match those two criteria, it’s probably not coming home with me, unless there are extenuating circumstances like I’m shopping for a special event, or I’m just feeling low and need a pick me up lol.
Now, on to the fun part!
Where do I shop?
Like I mentioned before, I do a lot of my shopping online but I do occasionally go to the physical store, so we’ll break this question down as well!
Physical Stores:
Target and Pacsun are probably the two stores I shop from the most frequently. There are also three local stores that I LOVE so if you are in the OKC area, check out Lucca, Blue 7, or Cloverleaf! I also VERY occasionally check out the Gap outlet. I’d love to say that I’m a thrifter but live I’ve mentioned before, I just seem to be missing that gift. If anyone knows of some thrift stores with a great clothing selection in OKC let me know!
Online Stores:
I’m a HUGE online shopper. Some people can scour TJ Maxx for hours and find great deals; I scour the internet. So here’s a list of my favorite shops!
ASOS. if you haven’t checked this out yet you really should. Two words: free shipping. And don’t try to ruin my life by telling me that they factored the shipping into their prices, because then you would be a really mean person. Point is, it’s cheap and trendy and they have a great 70% section that runs almost all the time.
Forever 21: I don’t even go into the store anymore, unless I have called ahead and know for a fact that they have the one item I want and it would be cheaper to just go in and get it. Forever21 online is a much safer way to shop. It’s organized and you don’t have to deal with the weird employees. (Anyone else get the heeby jeebies from the F21 dressing room attendants? They like to hover outside the door and want me to model every thing I put on. Just leave me alone and let me try on my items, thanks!)
Urban Outfitters: Since Oklahoma is ridiculous and still hasn’t built an UO yet, I’m forced to either shop online or go to Dallas. I love UO and they have some great sales on their website, sometimes better than the stores.
Ruche: super darling, very feminine, and great prices.
Threadsence: a little more hippy style but still with great prices
Lulus: I have at least 4 pairs of shoes from Lulus, and I love that they carry vegan leather items. They also have one of the best dress sections I’ve found yet.
Polyvore: Not exactly a store but if you’re looking for a specific item it’s a great way to search.
Shop my Closet Sales: This is my new obsession and I’m not joking when I say obsessions. Shop my Closet sales are a great way to find gently used clothing for a great price. Some of my favorite’s are Ruby Girl, Kelli Murray, or Ascot Friday’s instagram sales. Just search #shopmycloset and you’ll find a TON of sales.
Yay! So where do YOU shop? Any great stores I should know about?
Forever 21 jacket, necklace, tee, and pants ( when does it become embarrassing to wear an outfit primarily purchased from F21? When you’re not 21? Whoops!) Target booties, 7th & West hand chain, Unexpected Expectancy feather ring
scarf (old)// target sunnies, H&M top (borrowed from the seestor)// Pacsun pants// Forever 21 booties.
Well hello there 2013. Nice to see ya. ’12 was a great year, but let’s see what ’13 can do.
This year’s resolutions aren’t all that fancy or ingeniousness, They’re simply parts of my life where I feel I could improve. So here it is:
1. Health. As in overall health, mind body spirit. Take care of my body more, be more conscious of what I take in. Nurture my mind, read more. Be mindful of my spirit, that what I put out is a direct reflection of what I take in.
2. Wealth. Be a better steward of the blessings I have been given. Don’t be a mindless spending machine. Invest in items that will be long lasting.Save more money.
3. Happiness. Focus on making others happy, not just myself. Be more giving. Take time to cultivate true friendships, take care of the precious friendships I already have.
Welp it’s Friday the 21st and we’re all still alive! I guess the Mayans got it wrong. Or maybe they just ran out of rock, who knows.
The point is that the world didn’t end which means I can now truly enjoy the good things in life. Like these boots. Have I told you of my deep love for Chelsea boots? I absolutely adore boots and these slightly ugly yet equally quirky Chelsea boots are just darling. ( Chelseas are tight fitting ankle boots distinguished by the elastic band on the sides rather than a zipper. For those that are confused. Come on guys, get with the program).
These are on sale, these have a darling color block effect to them, and these are currently starring in my wildest dreams.
Are you in love now as well? Yes. I knew you would be.
Merry {early} Christmas! I won’t be back until after the Big Guy visits, so have a wonderful holiday, hug your loved ones extra tight, and remember what this season is really about.
“God is not dead, nor doth He sleep; The wrong shall fail, the right prevail With peace on earth, good will to men.”
a new computer (since I don’t actually have one, I just mooch off of everyone else)// pink mittens! I love these extra long ones, so your wrists don’t get chilly ; )// a leather baseball hat. So I don’t feel like such a frump// red pants. I would also accept leather pants// Gigi. It’s one of my favorite movies ever, but somehow I don’t own a copy // a new watch // Lily Pulitzer perfume. I just love this clean scent! My sweet Aunt Gigi got me hooked :) // chelsea ankle boots. They’re so weird they’re cute. // a new chambray shirt// a new journal. I love these Papaya Art ones!
idylle tee (previously worn here), unknown belt, Gap jeans, Shoe Dazzle booties
makeup: nothing too special. hair: scrunched and slept on so many days before that I’ve forgot how many.
Is it sad when you don’t remember the last time you washed your hair? Whoops! My little sister calls it “beachy hipster” hair. Let’s go with that since the other option can only be “dirty greasy homeless hair”
Welp folks it’s finally getting cold around these parts. I know some of you are dealing with vast amounts of snow and believe me, I’m super jealous. But when I wake up in the mornings, all snuggled into my flannel sheets and comfy quilt, I’m kind of glad we’re not dealing with snow just yet. I might not ever get out of my bed if we were.
vintage scarf//Target tee//old jean jacket//Forever 21 skirt//Shoe Dazzle booties
Happy Monday lovelies! I hope your weekend went well!
Some pretty exciting things are happening around here:
This coming weekend I will be officially moving to the new ramblingfancy.com site! YAY! Get ready for a new look, new features, and some pretty cool giveaways!
I’m working with my mom on a fun little project: we’re selling some items in a flea market! So if you live in the OKC area, come by The Feathered Nest to check it out! Lots of cute Christmas items! If you don’t live close, check out The Shop!
I’m also working on setting up a Shop My Closet sale, coming next week! After doing this post, I seriously re-evaluated my closet and YOU can benefit! WOOT!
sunnies from Canton, Target Ikat scarf (worn inside out), Rotten Tomatoes leather jacket (hand me down), Selfridges cardigan (last winter), Lucky belt (old), Gap boyfriend jeans, ShoeDazzle booties.
Guys it was COOOOLLLDDD this weekend. As usual, Oklahoma is creating some crazy weather patterns. Two months ago we reached record highs, this weekend we reached record lows. Taking pictures off a fishing dock on the lake was probably the worst location I could have chosen. WINDY CITY. Eh, it’s all for the cause :)
How was everyone’s weekend? Happy Turkey Day to all my Canadian friends out there!
Tomorrow I’m posting the tutorial for my fishtail braid. I’ve had a lot of requests for that one. You’ll be glad to know that it’s just about the easiest thing ever!
Francesca’s watch, H&M striped top, hand me down belt, Windsor skirt, Target boots (last year)
Don’t you think I look a bit witchy in this? Maybe it’s the boots, maybe it’s the lips, but I’m almost scarin’ myself here folks.
When I first bought this skirt, I wasn’t too sure of my ability to style it in more ways than 1. I always try to buy things that I know I will be able to style multiple ways, to ensure I get multiple outfits, and therefore stretch my wardrobe.
Since this is my third time to wear it here on the blog ( 1 and 2 ), I think it’s safe to say that I made the right choice in purchasing it.
Any big weekend plans? My weekend will revolve around my bed and my pajama pants.