If blogging was a grade, I’d have a D- after this weekend.
We had a Snow Apocalypse and I didn’t take one picture of the snow, my boots in the snow, or my hot Starbucks beverage…in the snow. However I stayed in my pj’s and listened to Christmas music all day long.
I baked. Guys. I baked. And I only caught one oven mitten on fire for like, a second.
I had a craft night and didn’t take one picture while there. However I did finish up a Wedding craft and spent some precious quality time with some of my favorite girls in the world.
I went to see The Nutcracker, one of my very favorite Winter time traditions. My cousin Chloe is a beautiful dancer! I did actually take a picture of this one.
So I have no record of my weekend. I can’t show you the beautiful snow, or my cute outfit (other than the one pictured, of course). There is no record of my fantastic cinnamon bread, other than what is imprinted on my taste buds for all of eternity, no pictures of the Girl’s Craft Night, and only one picture of The Nutcracker. Blog Grade: D-.
Life Grade? A+!(Cue cheesy Hallmark music and glistening tears and faint retching sounds in the background)
5th & Elm hat//ASOS dress// 7th & West diamond necklace// Blue 7 “b” necklace// ASOS socks// Blink leopard boots
Um..hi there….it’s Thursday. Whoops! How did that happen? Last time I checked it was Monday. Where has the week gone? And where did it take my brain? I need that back, Week. thanks.
So what to talk about. How about we talk about how utterly impossible it is to be a style blogger and have a full time job in the Winter? Because by the time I get off work, drive home, grab my camera and a photographer (usually my little sister, sometimes Jared), and find a satisfactory spot to shoot….the sun is completely gone and it is pitch black outside. I don’t know about you guys, but I detest inside shots, and stock flashes are the devil.
I’m working on an alternative option for Winter time photo shoots, but for now my solution is to take as many photo shoots as possible over the weekend when I have access to sunlight. This will probably mean that I won’t be doing as many style posts for a while but I’m going to take it as challenge and see what else I can come up with to post about this Winter! Any ideas?
Target hat//Warby Parker sunnies c.o//TJ Maxx tank//Oxford Trunk blazer// Forever 21 leggings//Target sneaks// Your Name Here vintage B ring//
side story: We bought the ring I’m wearing as a potential wedding ring for Jared. However when Jared tried it on it was just a little bit chunky for him (the man is not the jewelry type. I’ll be surprised if he wears his wedding ring on daily basis for more than 6 months after we’re married) so we had it resized to fit me! I, of course, was more than happy to add another vintage ring to my collection. Check out the shop here, she has so many unique pieces!
There is a How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days quote for every situation. Seriously.
How was your Thanksgiving? Wonderful? Good! Mine was as well. It was my first to spend with the (soon to be) in laws, which is always a bit nerve wracking. You think you know someone until you spend a holiday with them and then realize that they don’t drink coffee with their desserts like you do, or watch A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. But these are not deal breakers, and I did get thoroughly trounced at Monopoly by an eight year old, so it was a good day.
Now that the turkey has officially been eaten I can listen to my Christmas music unashamed. Which is fortunate, since I’ve been listening to Christmas tunes since November 1st. Yes. I’m on of those people. I’m also extremely excited about all of the Christmas parties coming up! You better believe these darling Riff Raff shorts will be present at at least one of them.
What about you? Any fun Christmas parties on the schedule? Any fantastic deals you’re shopping today? Don’t forget to check out Riff Raff and their darling Tis the Season line. SO many cute options for parties! Happy Cyber Monday!
Here in Oklahoma, Winter means one thing: you’re going to get blown away.
It doesn’t matter how lovely and bright the sun is shining, or how beautiful the snow looks. 95% of the time the wind will be blowing like nobody’s business and you will be exhausted by the time you get back into a safe building. Cars doors get slammed open, shopping carts go flying across the parking lot, and hats are blown away, never to be found again.
So when I saw this gigantic fur Rachel Zoe coat on IG, I knew it was perfect for this Winter. Despite the fact that my dad laughs every time I walk out of the house. I’m warm and cute (in my opinion anyways) and impervious to winds and jokes alike.
Speaking of Instagram, anyone else obsessed with a good IG sale? I’m always finding cute little shops on there! If you sell on IG or if you are a fellow IG shopper, let me know! I’m always looking for another cute shop!
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving! I have so many things to be thankful for this year and one of them is this lovely little blog and all of you wonderful people that I’ve come in contact with through it! You bring joy to my life. *hugs*
If you’re like me Turkey Day is all about spending time with your family, eating by far more food than you possibly thought you could, and relaxing as much as possible (AFTER the meal is cooked of course. I don’t normally participate in the cookery (fire hazard) but everyone knows that it is a highly stressful time until that dang bird is on the table)
I, being me, have already started planning my outfit this year and there shall be no detrimental waist bands, scratchy shirts, or uncomfortable heels for the Rambler. Who am I kidding, I will more than likely wear some outrageous heels but I will definitely be stashing my comfy mocs in my purse for after pictures! This year I plan on wearing a comfy sweater or tent dress for maximum pumpkin pie capacity, a big comfy scarf that can double as a napping blanket, and a couple no nonsense accessories like my beloved Warby Parkers.
What do you have planned for Turkey Day? And for those of you across the pond (or border, hey Canada!, since you already had your turkey), please feel free to roll your eyes expressively this entire week at the humongous deal we make out of our holidays and continue on to your Christmas music and tree decorating.
The other morning I was sitting in my car, getting ready to put on a little lippy before I started the day and WHAT, dear God, WHAT did I see in the mirror? I can’t believe I’m sharing this but yes dear friends, I shall tell you, I saw some friggin lip hairs.
I’ve never had to deal with hairs going rogue, my eyebrows have always been fairly submissive, and while the legs do get occasionally unruly that’s usually because I’ve waited by far to long to shave them. But LIP HAIRS?! Are you kidding me?! Of course I was in public, about to go into work, so it wasn’t like I could run home and tame the freaking Ron Burgandy ‘stache that was currently growing on my face. No I had to go the rest of the day trying to stay out of direct sunlight and freaking out anytime someone came to talk to me that they’d see the Colonel Sanders impression my upper lip was performing.
Although I can’t really prove this I’m going to blame the entire hairy situation on all of the stupid steroids and medication I had pumping through my body the last couple of months. If the meds could make my hair fall out, my skin break out, my cheeks chunk up, and my brain fly out the window, then surely they could make some nasty hairs grow where they are entirely NOT welcome right? To be honest it was more like 3 darkish hairs that were easy to wax right off but it’s the principal of the matter here people! UGH. Someone PLEASE tell me they’ve had to deal with this as well?
Target beanie// Forever 21 jacket// Oxford Trunk tank// The Elle camo pants (sold out but similar here)// Target booties (old)
The winter weather always surprises me when it comes along. You’d think I would remember how blessedly cold it gets, how the wind whips at you, but no it always catches me off guard. To protect my poor little bones against this monster called Oklahoma Winds, I’ve come up with a Defense against the Winter Weather list. Stock up and enjoy pulling one over on ole Jack Frost.
1. Hot Oil Treatments// frizzy hair, itchy scalp, and dry ends are the worst. Protect your hairs by indulging in a little at home spa treatment. These tubes are a 1-2 use, depending on how much hair you have, and super cheap at $2. Heat one up, pour on your scalp, and let sit for 1 to 2 Christmas carols. buy here
2. Lip scrub and Burts Bees// Dry flaky lips are a bit of a deterrent when you’re in a mistletoe situation. Take care of your kisser by grabbing a lip scrub (or make your own!) and follow up with some tinted Burts. Buy here and here
3. Coconut Oil// I hate itchy, dry legs. Before going to bed, I slather my gams with some coconut oil. It’s all natural and it makes my skin feel smoothy smooth. Another trick: eye makeup remover! I also dab a little on my lips before going to bed to nourish while I nap. Buy here
4. Snuggly slipper socks// Cold toes make me shiver just thinking about it. I always stock up on some cute slipper socks to protect those piggies! buy here and I LOVE these
Sometimes you pick an outfit because you want to feel good and I mean good. You want to feel confident and hot and you want to walk with a little bit of a -must I say it- swagger because you know you look dang good and I mean good.
Other times, you put a hat on because you’ve lost count of how many days its been since you washed your hair. You wear a floaty dress because you’re going to eat Italian and you want to indulge in that 8th breadstick and everyone knows you don’t wear jeans to eat Italian.
But you’re always going to be a girl and a part of you will always want to feel good and I mean good so you put on those boots because they make you feel sassy and you swipe a purple lipstick on because it makes you feel festive and suddenly, by golly, you’ve got an outfit that’s not completely contemptible if you do say so yourself. So you give yourself a slap on the back and also permission to ask for extra croutons on the salad because vivre l’instant!
side story: there may or may not have been a tiny field mouse that crawled out of the general vicinity of my hoo-ha while getting these shots. I may or may not have screamed like a banshee.
Target hat and card// urban outfitters dress and socks// shoe dazzle boots
Are you tired of me talking about surgery and health updates and gutty works related news? Because I’m getting there. But the public demands an update and I cannot ignore my public! le sigh (i’m kidding, in case you’re new around here…when I say public we all know I really mean out of state family and random friends that don’t see me enough to ask me about my innards to my face. But I digress!)
I’ve had two questions asked of me quite a bit so I thought I’d answer them here! On the internet! In public! yea! My sharing capacities shock even me sometimes. What can I say, I just have a big heart and want to share with everyone! I’m digressing again.
1. How do you hide your tootie bag thing?
Actually I thought that would be a lot harder than it’s turned out to be. Lot’s of dresses and loose shirts, to be sure. I also took the advice of my nurse (whom I call Osteo-Sheri) and bought this kind of corset/spanx like contraption that Tootie is supposed to fit into and help keep things smoothy smooth. I also wear quite a few tank tops or slips under my clothes. I’ve been told ( by quite a few people, really it was surprising) that they have looked for Tootie in my posts here and haven’t seen anything. Mostly that’s because I don’t post those pictures but for posterity’s sake:
that’s about all you’d ever see in a picture. She stays tucked in my pants if I’m wearing any (ooer) or tucked into the spanx contraption if I’m wearing a dress. and no I don’t believe I will be sharing an actual picture of Tootie on here. Yet. (i know mom, i know, calm down.)
#2 What is your diet? What are you able to eat?
Ah the diet question. And here is where my post title comes in: When I first had surgery I was given a pretty weird diet: no raw veggies, no whole grains or oats, avoid red meats, no nuts, no caffeine, etc.It was basically like the complete opposite of anything any nutritionist would tell a normal person. Weird. I stuck with this fairly well the first month or so (I drank a few Dr. Peppers, come on we’re talking about ME here) by eating lots of soups, mac and cheese (a real difficulty for me wink wink) and fish, along with my yummy Kize bars and the occasional Ensure.
I had a checkup with my specialist a few weeks ago and he basically told me to throw the diet out the window. Apparently the concept that my innards cannot handle certain foods is super antiquated research and he gave me the leave to eat whatever the heck I wanted.
So right after my appointment I had sushi for lunch. I’ve also been drinking dr. pepper like it’s going out of style, I had the skins on my baked potato, I had kidney beans in some chili, and I’ve ate shredded wheat cereal for breakfast. And: I haven’t once had a problem. With any of it. My stomach didn’t hurt, I didn’t get nauseous, and everything came out…er…as normal as things are supposed to come out these days. So if anyone is out there dealing with Crohn’s or had their colon removed: eat it all sister. And don’t blame me if you have any problems.
I have my second surgery in January and while I’m definitely ready for this chapter of my life to be over, it really hasn’t been as difficult as I was made to believe. Sure it’s not necessarily fun, and I’m still dealing with some muscle pain and fatigue, but I’m pretty confident I can handle it. At least for another month and some days. Especially since I can eat sushi and drink dr. pepper with out fear of gutty-blocks! YAY!
5th and Elm hat// Forever 21 sweater dress// Shoe Dazzle Booties (thanks Nanny and Poppy!)
As the days become shorter and the winds become chillier the accessories come out to play. Nothing beats snuggling around a bonfire, wrapped up in an oversized sweater, with your favorite boy and your favorite scarf. And I love wrapping my gloved hands around a piping hot mug of apple cider. Thigh high stockings are the perfect way to stretch those summer frocks into cooler weather, and I adore a good felt hat. What are your favorite cool weather accessories?